PinnedVanessa TorreThe Modern Women’s Midlife Crisis is “Quiet Quitting” Her LifeBecause no one knows what to do, let alone us.·6 min read·Mar 3, 2023--160--160
PinnedVanessa TorreinGENFinancially Incentivizing Couplehood and Marriage Needs to Be Re-examinedThe single tax is alive and well, and it’s only getting worse·6 min read·Nov 16, 2021--34--34
Vanessa TorrePlease Stop Commenting on Your Friends’ Weight LossHow simple accolades do more harm than good.·6 min read·Aug 26, 2023--37--37
Vanessa Torre“Marrying Down” Benefits Men But Hurts WomenVery real reasons why some women may look to “date up.”·4 min read·Aug 17, 2023--38--38
Vanessa TorreHow I Found My Partner After Five Excruciating Years of DatingIt did not involve manifesting, a dating app, or being set up.·6 min read·Aug 11, 2023--19--19
Vanessa Torre“Normal” Workspaces Only Work for “Normal” PeopleHow my not-normal brain made me fight for 25 years.·4 min read·Aug 9, 2023--3--3
Vanessa TorreNo, I Don’t Want to “Guard My Heart”I have earned the right to throw caution completely to the wind.·5 min read·Aug 7, 2023--1--1
Vanessa TorreWhy We Need to Reframe the Stigma of Having RoommatesA case for same-sex platonic cohabitation.·6 min read·Aug 5, 2023--5--5
Vanessa TorreDon’t Mourn the Loss of Something You Don’t Actually WantIt wasn’t what you wanted. It wasn’t what you needed. Let it go.·5 min read·Aug 3, 2023--23--23
Vanessa Torre“Lazy-Girl Jobs”: This Is Not the Revolution We’re Looking ForBe careful the term you coin. It may stick and then we’re all stuck.·6 min read·Jul 29, 2023--140--140