You’re right we wanted sexual agency. Then men became absolved of having to deal with birth control under the guise of exactly what you’re doing: “Well, you wanted it! HERE! Have it!” How is that EXACTLY what we wanted. To say that would be to say that we wanted to pay more, subject our bodies to harm and be stigmatized. Because that’s what came with it. You can’t give people one method of equality, create another and then call it fair.