You are basing ths on the few and applying it to the all. Bottom line: There are shit people all over the damn place. Here is what most people don't do: Align what you want and need with what you seek. Most people chase after what does not get them what they want and need. Example: women want emotional connection but will chase the guy who won't give it to them. Men want loyalty but chase after the hot chick who likes his car.

Work on THIS.