Why Marrying Your Best Friend Isn’t a Great Idea

It’s a nice sentiment but not one without concerns.

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I don’t want him to be the sole bearer of the weight of my happiness and my sorrow. I like to spread that around to various people. I’m a giver.

Just because an experience is going to be amazing and our partner is amazing doesn’t mean they have to be amazing at the same time in the same place.

Side note: If you have to make a pros and cons list to figure out if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, the answer is no. No, you don’t.

*I’ve picked up a few life lessons while stumbling around trying to figure relationships out:

Flaming pinball, nerd, music lover, wine snob, horrible violin player. No, I won’t stop taking pictures of my drinks. vanessaltorre@gmail.com IG: vanessaltorre

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