We do know what we want! At least most of us do. The hard part is that somethings what seems great on paper doesn’t translate well in real life. I even started doing “phone dates.” It was a nice first conversation. It let me know if I was going to enjoy that person. Also, you can’t discount the power of chemistry. Either it’s there or it’s not. Sometimes people can be compatible but not match well. The whole thing is silly, isn’t it?