The Difference Between a Warning Sign and a Red Flag

Making the distinction, setting boundaries, and knowing your limits.

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After many trials and many errors, I started seeing patterns. This is a huge clue to us that whatever hard work we are doing on ourselves is paying off.

Warning Sign: They’re messy.

Red Flag: They’re incapable of adulting.

You can always treat symptoms. Minus a disease, symptoms often go away. A disease can’t always be cured and you’re not a doctor. It’s not your job.

Warning Sign: They have drama

Red Flag: They are drama

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