The Dark Side of Being a People Pleaser

How being a giver nearly wrecked me

Vanessa Torre

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Photo by Milan Popovic via Unsplash

Your mind works in strange ways when you’re a people pleaser. For most of my life, I have worked within a certain ideology: If I can make someone feel happy, I have value to them.

This seems pretty simple and harmless. It’s not. It’s actually pretty messed up.

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Vanessa Torre

Top 10 feminist writer. Writing, coaching, and relentlessly hyping women in midilfe. linktr.ee/Vanessaltorre Email: vanessa@vanessatorre.com