Thank you for this! As the receiver of unsolicited peen pics, it’s ridiculous. It’s happened to me four time in the last two and a half months. The land speed record was seven minutes into an innocuous conversation.

My thought is that they are being as up front as they can with what THEY need. Our needs be damned. It’s the wide net. It only has to work once. And they never have to actually deal with the person in real life. So, online, anything goes.

What bothers me is the emotional ramifications on OUR side. I am just a good woman trying to find a good man online. Then that shit happens and I delete the app out of frustration until I’m not totally annoyed again and finally give it another try. It’s so horrible for the female psyche.

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