OMG, yes! I just wrote a piece about how much I don’t like “dating other people.” I think it’s bullshit. Because I have standards. You would think I wanted to set fire to my dates.
I just dated a guy exactly like you described. I had to request time together. He was always busy. Never wanted to go to things where my friends would be. Put in no real effort. I cut him loose. I don’t play like that. I would rather be happily alone than to accept someone else’s C game while I’m giving my A game. Nope. Whole lotta nope.