Okay, let me flip this around. Why would YOU consider I’ve blown it. You made the initial statement. Support it. You allude to the fact that I’ve done something wrong (i.e. I’ve “blown it”) because men are just looking for hook-ups. What does that have to do with me.
Now, assuming every single man on a dating app has no other intention than to get in my pants and treating all of them like that would be blowing it.