My Friend’s Grieving Husband Knew Who I Was

I’ve never felt more recognized as a person.

Vanessa Torre
4 min readOct 5, 2019

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When I was in 4th grade, a new elementary school opened up in between her home and mine. She lived on one side of a major road. I, on the other. Going to Shannon’s house included riding my bike across a desert field that ran by the junior high. It became well traveled.

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Vanessa Torre

Top 10 feminist writer. Writing, coaching, and relentlessly hyping women in midilfe. linktr.ee/Vanessaltorre Email: vanessa@vanessatorre.com