Let be very clear. Calling men's behavior out does not mean hatred. I don't hate men. I love men. Some just behave very poorly and I don't suffer fools.
I do not see a litany of women complaining that men won't date them based on arbitrary metrics that hold no truth. In fact, women are significantly less interested in dating than men. And I don't see a female equivalent to the red pill men.
And you understand the logical fallacy in "I THINK you don't like men, so, even though you have solid information you present, I am choosing not deem it in valid.