“In general, you might want to consider why men act the way they do instead of being quick to judge them, otherwise people may criticize you for not being as intelligent or as empathetic as you claim to be.”
I understand why men are the way they are. Women are continually reminded that men are visual beings and that we should bend ourselves to that. Make ourselves pretty and attractive. Yet, I don’t see a lot of men being reminded that we are emotional beings and that they should bend themselves to being more emotionally available so we find them attractive.