I’m in no way complaining about being happy and healthy. Now, wealthy I’m not sure I’d use as an adjective. But, I made myself happy and healthy and that takes work. I am not asking society to cow-tow to me and spin things in my favor. I do ask that playing fields are even and I do find it perfectly acceptable to ask to be reassured that turning a man down will not result in my healthy, happy body being found in a corn field.

I don’t hate aggressive guys. I love RESPECTFUL alpha males. Love them. And I certainly hope that you are not saying non-white women as a whole are more tolerant or oafish, slovenly and unwanted advances. This has nothing to do with race and you are painting a broad brush stroke there.

Women have the right to be safe. Period.