I think people sometimes confuse empathy with just being soft. I consider myself an empathetic person but I’m also a realistic. I don’t believe in letting people wallow too long. Yes, sometimes wallowing is necessary. But I would rather help someone toward what they need than shove them.

I don’t think people need to fit into “either” or “or” category.

I am glad you had the support you needed at the time you went through this.

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