I left it out of the discussion in the article as the article was discussing the revisions, which focus mainly on late-term. I’d be happy to pen another article someday about what you speak of.
My point in bringing up my own experience is simply: I understand a mother’s loss. Period.
You ask good questions. I ask you to do one thing. Do not, EVER, presume to know the thoughts and heart of a pregnant woman. Ever.