I just found this! A) Thank you for the shout out! B) Hell yes. All of this. I'm not cool with Mr. Aloof. What I'm even less cool with is Mr. Hot and Cold. Mr. Kinda. Men like that have too much growth to do. I want a man who is going to show up physically and emotionally. Mr. Maybe ain't gonna cut it. Every time I have a failed dating experience, my standards increase, not decrease. I had a date this week with a really great guy. Really great. Despite being awesome, I'm not chasing after him to try and get him to like me, ask me out, and follow up. I have no problem walking away from Mr. Awesome if I don't see effort.

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