I have SOOOO many. I am a huge fan of this inventory of midlife. Mourning the loss of what we deeply wanted but never had is a whole other ballgame. But, as Cheryl Strayed said, "it's a ghost shop that doesn't carry us." It's not meant for us. The more time we spend on what is not ours, the less we enjoy what is ours. Seek joy. Everywhere.

I also have a whole Facebook group for midlife women where we share and try to be as helpful as humanly possible. I think there is a link at the bottom of the artice!