I have about 18 different feelings right now and I think I need to talk about all of them…

This blows my mind. I knew I recognized Gottman’s name. I went back and looked. I read an article a while back about how he used science to predict whether relationships would last. I, subsequently, wrote an article about how he could have absolutely predicted my last divorce. Sure as hell, it could have.

I think so much of what you say is spot on and I love the ice analogy. It’s perfect.

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