I get what you’re saying. But, women have been saying, “These are the things I worry about and I want to share that with you” for ages. We feel ignored. Why? Because a whole lot of men (not all, please don’t twist my words) can’t wrap their brain around that worry and therefore, dismiss it.
I think both genders have privilege. I never said they didn’t. This was addressed to a target audience: men who do NOT think privilege exists.