I appreciate the intent of this. The is some solid advice here, especially regarding men doing work in themselves beyond the physical. But, as a woman, I can tell you that women intentionally testing men is order to make them stumble to ensnare them is a fallacy. We have no intention of knocking men off their game and perpetuating the idea of “shit tests” grows anger and resentment toward men. It continues to paint women as manipulative. I can’t stand for that.