I am so glad this has been your experience. I honestly think that some of it has to do with demographics and location. My profile is very clear that I’m a brainiac. I just don’t think a lot of guys even take the time to read it. When I had a profile on Plenty of Fish, I could see how viewed my profile. It amazed me how many messages I got from guys who didn’t even read my profile. I can only chalk it up that you live in a far less douchey place than I do! :)