I agree. When I first started REALLY dating again, I tried the concept of keeping my options open and trying people out. I would go on a few dates with A while going on a first date with B, C, or/and D. You know what happened? I couldn’t remember little details about any of them! Who told me what. Who’s favorite team was who’s. How old their kid was. That is not the way I want to operate. I would rather see one person three times in a month and really try to get to know them and see if it goes beyond that or if I cut them loose and try again.

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