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How Men Can Stop Losing Money in Divorce

It all comes down to one single choice they usually make wrong.

Vanessa Torre
6 min readJul 29, 2022
Photo by Karolina Grabowska via Pexels

I have written many articles on women’s rights, oppression, and male privilege over the years. The last of those three subjects hits different than the first two. When the last one drops, a get a flurry of rebuttals sent my way informing me that alimony and child support are the greatest proof that female privilege exists.

No matter how often I have refuted this idea, it’s not accepted. At this point, I have stopped trying to convince men that the patriarchy created alimony. So, instead, I will make an effort to help men out by offering some five-star advice on how to avoid ever having to pay for alimony or child support. Ready?

Stop intentionally choosing subservient women.

That’s it. That’s the list. Goodnight and thank you. Please tip your waitress.

The one thing that the men who have come at me screaming about alimony have in common is that they did not seem to hold women in high regard prior to the marriage and the birthing of offspring.

They seem to fall in line with the red pill agenda of the man should be the head of the household, make all the decisions, be the breadwinner, and the woman should make the home and tend to the kids. This…

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Vanessa Torre
Vanessa Torre

Written by Vanessa Torre

Top 10 feminist writer. Writing, coaching, and relentlessly hyping women in midilfe. linktr.ee/Vanessaltorre Email: vanessa@vanessatorre.com

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