Expecting someone to be nice and listing that as a must have is not asking too much and should not be worrisome to anyone. Stating that you think I am trying to find someone "out of my league" is clearly telling me that you do NOT think I am worthy of a nice person. Telling me that wanting someone who thinks I'm awesome is unreachable. That is pure unadulterated bullshit. No one shoul dhave to settle for less than they deserve and date people who are not nice just to attract people. That is toxic thinking.

In case you missed the point in the article, read it again. If after three months of spending a good amount of time together, someones does not think you are awesome, it is time to move the hell on.