All. Of. This.
I have long since held that no one argues over how the dishwasher is loaded. No one. It's not about the dishwasher. It's something else.
Looking at relationship duties like you've put out here has made me infinitely happier. And I ran out of give a shit about how laundry is folded. Hell, I don't even care about folding laundry. I'm a "fluff 14 times in the dryer until it's about empty" kind of girl anyway.