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The Modern Women’s Midlife Crisis is “Quiet Quitting” Her Life

Because no one knows what to do, let alone us.

Mar 3, 2023
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The Modern Women’s Midlife Crisis is “Quiet Quitting” Her Life
The Modern Women’s Midlife Crisis is “Quiet Quitting” Her Life
Mar 3, 2023
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Financially Incentivizing Couplehood and Marriage Needs to Be Re-examined

The single tax is alive and well, and it’s only getting worse

Nov 16, 2021
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Financially Incentivizing Couplehood and Marriage Needs to Be Re-examined
Financially Incentivizing Couplehood and Marriage Needs to Be Re-examined
Nov 16, 2021
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Please Stop Commenting on Your Friends’ Weight Loss

How simple accolades do more harm than good.

Aug 26, 2023
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Please Stop Commenting on Your Friends’ Weight Loss
Please Stop Commenting on Your Friends’ Weight Loss
Aug 26, 2023
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“Marrying Down” Benefits Men But Hurts Women

Very real reasons why some women may look to “date up.”

Aug 17, 2023
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“Marrying Down” Benefits Men But Hurts Women
“Marrying Down” Benefits Men But Hurts Women
Aug 17, 2023
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How I Found My Partner After Five Excruciating Years of Dating

It did not involve manifesting, a dating app, or being set up.

Aug 11, 2023
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How I Found My Partner After Five Excruciating Years of Dating
How I Found My Partner After Five Excruciating Years of Dating
Aug 11, 2023
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“Normal” Workspaces Only Work for “Normal” People

How my not-normal brain made me fight for 25 years.

Aug 9, 2023
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“Normal” Workspaces Only Work for “Normal” People
“Normal” Workspaces Only Work for “Normal” People
Aug 9, 2023
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No, I Don’t Want to “Guard My Heart”

I have earned the right to throw caution completely to the wind.

Aug 7, 2023
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No, I Don’t Want to “Guard My Heart”
No, I Don’t Want to “Guard My Heart”
Aug 7, 2023
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Why We Need to Reframe the Stigma of Having Roommates

A case for same-sex platonic cohabitation.

Aug 5, 2023
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Why We Need to Reframe the Stigma of Having Roommates
Why We Need to Reframe the Stigma of Having Roommates
Aug 5, 2023
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Don’t Mourn the Loss of Something You Don’t Actually Want

It wasn’t what you wanted. It wasn’t what you needed. Let it go.

Aug 3, 2023
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Don’t Mourn the Loss of Something You Don’t Actually Want
Don’t Mourn the Loss of Something You Don’t Actually Want
Aug 3, 2023
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“Lazy-Girl Jobs”: This Is Not the Revolution We’re Looking For

Be careful the term you coin. It may stick and then we’re all stuck.

Jul 29, 2023
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“Lazy-Girl Jobs”: This Is Not the Revolution We’re Looking For
“Lazy-Girl Jobs”: This Is Not the Revolution We’re Looking For
Jul 29, 2023
130
Vanessa Torre

Vanessa Torre

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Top 10 feminist writer. Writing, coaching, and relentlessly hyping women in midilfe. linktr.ee/Vanessaltorre Email: vanessa@vanessatorre.com

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