PinnedVanessa Torre·May 27Mastering the Art of Having EnoughHow abandoning the need to achieve keeps me satisfied
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PinnedInGENbyVanessa Torre·Nov 16, 2021Financially Incentivizing Couplehood and Marriage Needs to Be Re-examinedThe single tax is alive and well, and it’s only getting worseA response icon31A response icon31
InMiddle-PausebyVanessa Torre·May 25How to Explain Perimenopause to a ManHow I got perimenopause to make sense, even if it doesn’t.A response icon3A response icon3
Vanessa Torre·May 17What’s Really Behind the Under-Babied “Crisis”What they can’t and won’t talk about.A response icon5A response icon5
Vanessa Torre·May 12Women Can Either Dye Their Hair or Retire EarlyA couple years’ labor is the price I have paid for conformityA response icon13A response icon13
Vanessa Torre·May 10The Small Army of Professionals I'm Enlisting to Fix MeIt's not my fault I'm broken, and I deserve care.
Vanessa Torre·Aug 26, 2023Please Stop Commenting on Your Friends’ Weight LossHow simple accolades do more harm than good.A response icon36A response icon36
Vanessa Torre·Aug 17, 2023“Marrying Down” Benefits Men But Hurts WomenVery real reasons why some women may look to “date up.”A response icon34A response icon34
Vanessa Torre·Aug 11, 2023How I Found My Partner After Five Excruciating Years of DatingIt did not involve manifesting, a dating app, or being set up.A response icon20A response icon20